Applying to college is stressful. There's no doubt about it. Beginning in high school, and often before, students worry about where they want to go to college and how they will get in. Families are inundated with information in their mailbox and inboxes, which can be exciting but also overwhelming. Many questions come up throughout the process, and often there are no clear answers because each student has their own factors to consider and each school has its own specific (and often confusing) requirements. Students understandably seek advice from their friends, but this often adds stress because they receive conflicting information that may or not apply to their situation. This same dynamic occurs among parents.
Most families can benefit from having a knowledgeable and experienced counselor to advise them through the college admissions process,
which leads to a more personalized and positive experience.
Applying to college is markedly different than it was 25 years ago. Schools that might have been considered “safety schools” when you were applying are now highly competitive schools. There are new decision plans, testing policies, application platforms, and definitions that require applicants to get organized early and approach the process methodically. Now, with social media, your high school students are seeing their peers’ acceptances in real time, adding even more anxiety to the process. You are probably seeing them as well on your own accounts, multiplying the stress.
Beyond the obvious worry about your child “getting in,” there are other factors at play. Paying for college is likely the biggest financial decision you will make on behalf of your child, and you want the school to be both a great experience and a worthwhile investment. In addition, it is a time of transition for your family. Even though it might seem like your teenager can’t wait to get out of the house (and you might be ready to not-so-gently nudge them out as well), they are likely experiencing many conflicting feelings about leaving for college. It’s an emotional time for everyone, but it’s also essential to stay focused and have a positive dynamic in your house.
I have the “distinct” advantage of being a parent (of teenagers no less) but not your child’s parent. I will make your child accountable for work products and deadlines so you don’t have to. I will be your touchstone throughout, and you will have my unwavering commitment and support as we go through this process together.
I can’t promise you zero stress as you go through the college process. However, I can promise that I will help to reduce your overall stress by getting you out in front of the process. Even before you apply, you will likely have questions about testing, course selection, extra-curriculars, how to spend your summers, and more. I can talk these things through with you and explore the tradeoffs of various options. When it comes time to develop your college list, I will help you narrow it down, plan your visits, and discuss how to make the visits productive. And when you put together your application, I will help you present yourself in the most thoughtful, personal, and compelling way possible.
Throughout the process, I will:
I will be part coach, teacher, confidante, cheerleader, buffer and friend and will be with you every step of the way.
Lynn Zerbib, College Counselor
lynn@zerbibcollegecounseling.com
550 Mamaroneck Avenue | Suite 102 | Harrison, NY 10528
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